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Inner confidence, outer ease

April 12, 2016

Confidence is not about proving it on the outside. Those who are outwardly confident as in being bold and brash are often inwardly insecure. By showing their power outwardly, they think this can compensate for what is lacking inside.

But it doesn’t work. It just works to fool others who buy into the act. But sooner or later, cracks start to show. They falter.

When you build a quiet confidence that comes from within, that lends toward the beginning of an outer ease that is authentic and real and lasts. That breezy way of going about your life becomes who you are and isn’t an act. It’s you. It looks effortless to others, why? Because the foundation is strong inside.

When I say to be breezy and nonchalant, it is hard to do if you’re feeling insecure or self-conscious. You have to pretend to be breezy and nonchalant. It is easy to do if you feel confident within. You won’t have to pretend. You can concentrate on enjoying yourself when you aren’t worried about keeping up the act.

Confidence in yourself as a woman takes time. It isn’t an overnight success. But the same inner confidence in a 30-year-old can be found in an 18-year-old. Some people just have it. Otherwise, just continue to work on your inner confidence as a worthy attractive woman as you go about your life as a Prize Catch!

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  1. Tiffany permalink

    Great information on quiet confidence. We as prize catches already have it. The key is to “flip on the power switch and keep it on”…..consciously and subconsciously!!

    • Tiffany,

      You’re so right. You already have it! Once it sinks into your subconscious, it’s there to stay.

  2. NinaNina permalink

    Dear One Truth,

    Hi. Hope you could post a little bit more often : )

    After reading about dating, I’d love to read about how to handle the housework once you’re married (in order to stay as a prize catch).

    Housework could be burdensome especially if you are a working mom, that you get rusted, worn out. Men do mens work and women do womens work? But womens work is a lot; cooking, washing, cleaning, etc. Its a heavy job.

    A topic on this might help us see how to be a good wife, a good mom (taking care of the kids and husband) but at the same time remain gracious, lovely, let men chase you (or in this case your husband).I’d love to cook for my family if I got married someday. Its not an easy task to work and cook at home I would say.

    Thank you, One Truth.

    • NinaNina,

      Good topic. Thanks for your input and I will see what I can do to address this issue.

  3. Anne permalink

    Great post, and very important one!

    I’d love to see some more like this, how to be more authentic, honest, and less self-conscius in interactions with men, or interactions with people in general, to whom we’re attracted to!

    Thanks One Truth!

    • Anne,

      Thanks for your feedback. I will try to think of more topics like these. I appreciate your readership!

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