Being a Prize Catch isn’t a show. That is why I hesitate to identify famous role models for you to emulate. I don’t know their inner lives, and that is what this is all about: the INNER YOU that directs your outer world and behavior.
When reading the EGuides, start with your core being:
- How do you feel about yourself and your life?
- What do you deserve?
- Do you take responsibility for yourself and your behavior?
- Do you blame others for how you feel?
- Do you believe you always have a choice?
- Do you want to co-create a beautiful relationship with a man, or do you want to use him as an emotional and social crutch?
When you can feel good and deserving, able to wield power in choosing, you can then INTERNALIZE Prize Catch principles.
- You can then BE a Prize Catch without having to ACT like one.
- You can then LET GO of men you are attracted to if they don’t pursue.
- You can monopolize your time with things that are good and healthy for you so a man only serves to enhance your life, not toxify it.
- You can live a Prize Catch lifestyle that feels natural to you based on your personal preferences.
- You can decline offers that don’t value you and accept ones that do — without doubting yourself and backtracking.
- You can gain confidence without conceit, gain ease without inertia, yet stay friendly without being overly zealous.
Without starting with YOU and working out the kinks in YOU, you end up lonely and needy, angry and frustrated, or jump from one guy to the next until you run out of them.
Even if you and some guy start out with great chemistry, you need to know how to SUSTAIN it. Getting a brand new car might make you happy, but without maintaining it, it won’t last.
Why suffer from heartbreak unnecessarily? And why do so over and over?
You owe it to yourself to live a happy, meaningful life. It begins with INTERNALIZING the principles so the steps outlined in the EGuides aren’t done robotically and mechanically, like reciting a bunch of rules.
Dig deep and REFLECT, then come from WITHIN so your behavior is an authentic representation of who you are.
Then watch the results unfold and ENJOY.